Weather, Walks and Happy Friday

The weather here has been unusual for late July.  For the past few days, there has been cloud cover and sometimes rain.  The garden is sprawling.  Sometimes tomato plants develop a lot of stem and foliage but few tomatoes.  This will depend partly on varieties.  This year, we have both.  We tried a potato tower, and the results were so encouraging that we started a second one.  Around mid-July, the plants had appeared to quit growing, but with the recent rain and cool weather, those plants are growing again.  The green beans in the two raised bed containers have taken over the two pepper plants in each container, and the okra between the containers.  The basil is growing well, as it usually does once the wet, cool part of spring is past.  And corn!  There are 2-3 ears on each stalk, and the electric fence was installed soon enough that the raccoons have been disappointed.  The ears were well-pollinated, maturing to the tips.  This means that there were no corn worms.  And so far, there are no tomato hornworms.  That is concerning.  The squash bugs are working desperately to get into the mesh tent where the squash is trying to grow through the tent.  They succeeded in laying eggs on a part of a leaf that stuck through, and there must have been areas I missed, because there were eggs on stems in three places yesterday.  Delicata squash to squash bugs must be euphoric; these pests are incredibly persistent.

All in all, the garden is doing well, and Grace and I have been enjoying some of the outcomes.  Grace has spotted a few butterflies, but there have been fewer than usual.  I have seen a honeybee, a bumblebee and a borer bee, but insects in general have been scarce.  That is concerning.

With the squash in a mesh tent, I have to pollinate the flowers.  This is a sticky mess.  There have been a few creatures small enough to get through the mesh that have apparently helped out.  Finally, I looked for a Youtube video and found a very practical method by someone whose plants are in the open air.  The only way that I can imagine to do this successfully would be with a container on concrete using pesticides and hand-pollinating, and perhaps by living where there are no stinking squash bugs.  These bugs fly in, and they can demolish squash vines quickly, then progressively destroy other vining plants in order of their preference.

Until recently, the weather had been so hot that if I opened the door to let Grace into the south yard, she would either look at me like my thinking was unfit or she would go out for 30-60 seconds and ask to come back inside.  The south yard has a Maple tree with branches that sprawl across the swing and the southwest corner of the yard, where Jade is buried.  In cooler weather, we do activities or I sit in the swing and Grace listens to the sounds.  That is a normal enjoyable time for a Newfoundland, when the birds are singing, the cars are passing and other interesting sounds emerge, like the train whistle or a motorcycle.  On Wednesday, she went outside and didn’t look back.  I went about whatever I was doing, and within a couple of minutes, she was barking at the door.  The windows and doors had just been cleaned last week, and since she spits when she barks, there was now spit on the sidelite.  Other guests would see that as dirty instead of what it really is:  the joy of living with a Newf.  This time, when I opened the door to let her in, she had other interests.  She looked straight at me and turned, asking me to come with her.  Then I noticed that it wasn’t hot outside.  I followed her to the swing.  Sometimes she gets onto the swing with me, but that gets a bit crowded.  She sat down beside the swing, so I sat on the swing and drifted back and forth lazily.  The shade of the Maple and a cool breeze made it a very nice time to sit and enjoy being outside.  I pushed down the nudging of things that needed to be done.  Good idea Grace!

She walked over and sat beside Jade’s grave, and she studied the sky and the birds and the butterfly and the cattle.  Jade loved to do this also and I was nearly in tears.  There was, as usual, a long list of things that needed to be done, but when someone invites you to their party, you stay and enjoy it Gracefully, and you learn to live life in that moment.  These are the important kinds of moments.

After a while, I got up and went on to the next task, but Grace again had other ideas.  She was jumping, running and spinning like when she was a puppy [ a few months ago : ) ].  On one spin, she came rushing toward me in a way that I thought I was in trouble, like she was thinking of jumping onto me or up into my arms.  I’m not quite that rugged now, Grace.  Her spirits being lifted like that was another joy.

Grace wanted to spend time outside again yesterday, and she wanted to play Stick, rather Keep-away.  Most days now are too hot for this.  It was cool enough that I had goose bumps wearing shorts.  Grace was running and turning, daring me to get the Stick.  She would rush past fast enough that I could touch it.  (Of course, you never try to take something from the mouth of a Newfoundland unless they are stopped and you are teaching “Give”.)  She was having a blast.  When she finally laid down, giving me a chance to get the Stick, I threw it for her a couple of times, then switched to Find It, using treats.

Again this morning, it is splendidly cool, and we took an early walk.  We adventured down a new street, with different cracks and grates, and different places where male dogs have peed.  We walked back around to the social zone, but there weren’t yet people mulling around.  When we got back to the van, she protested.  She didn’t want to get in.  I put the ramp in place.  Still she pleaded against having to get back into the van.  Then my light came on:  “Do you want to go to the park and sit for a while?”  “Yes”.  Then she got into the van, we drove on to the park and looked for a bench that wasn’t too wet.  Someone was walking a dog off-leash, so she had to wait for a moment before exiting.  The grass was wet, so I opted for a seat at a picnic table, forgetting that Grace would want to be on the table, where she had a better vantage point for listening and watching.  She went to the end of the table to sit, so I tuned in to her responses to the surroundings, in case she tried to launch off.  About a week ago, she had spun around while we were walking as if she wanted to catch a rumbling black pickup that was coming up from behind.  She may be maturing, but impulse still can take hold.  We sat quietly and listened.  Until you take time to stop and listen, your busy mind may tune out the background sounds as “noise”.  After her need to be Present was satiated, I said, “Are you hungry?  Do you want to go home and make breakfast?”  No reply needed; she came easily.

Happy Friday from The Bigfoot Club!

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Taking the Pirate to the Lake

We woke on Saturday morning and I told Grace that we were going to do something very fun today. She looked at me with an expression that conveyed puzzled interest. She is learning to have confidence when I say that we will do something fun, but clearly this would be different. Grace is an only Newf in a long line of puppies who have been raised to enjoy water from an early age. When she arrived, she had a kiddie pool where she would run across the yard and launch in, making a good splash. We did some early dive training in her pool. But things went astray on water training during the next year, other than a trip to a Gulf beach, where the water was warm and the air was warmer, and the water tasted terrible. This would be her first adventure to the lake.

She had some hand-me-down water tools and toys filled with joyful memories. I brought along Parker’s favorite retrieving dummy, an item of nearly guaranteed interest. Being a growing-up now 2-year old pirate, we had to find a place to work where if she became free from the leash, we would hopefully be able to recapture the leash. We used the long rope at first, and we each had bait in our pockets that would survive interest if it got wet. I worked on the bank and Greg worked in the water. The further he went out, the more dubious she was. This is Newf-typical; it is their job to protect humans from their less-than-wise choices.

Being out of practice, I packed all but a few important things: I missed bringing the flat collar for water work, towels (had just unpacked from travel) and lawn chairs. Since she had been in heat recently, I had done a quick clean-up before leaving. Grace is one of those who have a high level of awareness of any stimulus, and when water runs down her rear leg, she will hold it up to let the water run off and shake her foot. Having used a towel afterward, how could I not remember to take one?

We had the dryer, and the van lithium batteries would operate the dryer long enough for a quick blow-off after a swim. We had a cooler bag with cold water and an ice pack. We had treats for Newfs but nothing for humans. We leave water shoes in the van so those aren’t forgotten, but forgetting that we hadn’t used those for a few years, the soles weren’t in good shape. (added those to the list) And we didn’t take the flotation belt that we use to start some with swimming.

Grace had a blast. She clearly found the joy that a Newf should experience about being in water. She went a bit pirate on the beach in an expression of joy, but she did very well for her first retrieve exercises, and she did some of her own diving for things underwater. She didn’t want to swim out very far, but she went out progressively a little further each time. As she becomes better conditioned for swimming, her reserve should lessen. It’s tougher when you raise a puppy without an adult guide; they have to learn a lot on their own.

I had brought the dryer, and a collapsible bucket stays in the van, but I forgot to bring rinse water. (now on the list) The dryer lasted for about 15-20 mins. before the batteries died, much too early. (resolving that is also on the list)

We left for Springfield to run some errands and get supplies. By the time we left Springfield, dark skies from a storm were passing overhead. When we got back, Grace approached me in the kitchen with a deep expression of happiness and a smile that seemed to convey gratitude. Maybe I have earned more trust for the next time I say, “Let’s go do xxx.”. She’s an independent thinker. She’s probably a bit more skeptical when it’s hot outside.

We played for a while and watched television. Grace and I were sharing some chips. While she was beside the bed with her head down, I dropped another that must have touched the coat on her neck as it fell. She jumped straight up on all four feet, in the Trail of Tears posture, about 10-12″ at mid-air, with a split second of levitation and an expression that will be unforgettable. Who knows what offensive creature may jump off the bed onto a Newfoundland without notice!

Last night there were severe storms and the first alarm went off for a tornado warning until 11:30, later extended to 12:45. Grace was ahead of the alarms. She came to get us, we thought to go outside, but that wasn’t it. Within a couple of minutes, sirens were blaring and we were hurrying to the basement in sleepwear, taking fewer items than usual.

This morning, she found a cache of fun sticks in the yard. Humans will have some work to do, locating what has been redistributed, cleaning up and up-righting some plants that are leaning south. But it looks like this time we were fortunate. Not long ago, neighbors in Mt. Vernon and Springfield were pelted with 5 inch balls of hail. La Nina. Maybe that would be a good name for a Newf.

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MY LOVELY PIRATE

She moved with Grace, flowing through the landscape of
vines and trees, valleys and curves, carrying her shimmering black banner

My darling, the Pirate

What day is it? Oh, yes – Tuesday. Class Day. Did I forget? Are we going? Steam is rolling off her tongue and light is beaming from her eyes.

Recently I got a paperback copy of “Enemy of All Mankind” (yes, the book about a global manhunt for a pirate). It had been on my mental reading list for a while. But before I could turn a page, it became, ironically, pirate booty. Who needs the back cover or the end of the last chapter anyway? It’s a bit dog-eared but largely still readable.

I love this pirate in her elegant black coat that moves with her fluently and shimmers in the sun. I love her deep-set brown eyes that reflect wisdom, humor, kindness and energy. She turns each walk into an adventure, each trip into an engagement activity, each interaction into a bonding moment. I begin to wonder whether I am more student than teacher, again.

There is more life to be lived than we know about as humans, and it can be difficult to dissuade us from our thoughts, to recognize opportunities for us to open up to new perspectives, or even to the plants and creatures in our own backyards. This is a job for a Pirate! She misses little, from creatures or items smaller than the tip of her toenail to birds that fly above and larger creatures that roam the fields. She would love to fly and seems to think it must be possible for Newf pirates also. I explain that not all creatures can fly. Cats can’t fly. Cows can’t fly. Then I had a dream that she bolted away and ran into an airfield, into a plane and somehow started the engine. She was flying. But I began worrying: how would she get back down? Landing wouldn’t be as easy. I wondered whether we could send a drone up to extract her.

By listening to her, I see an eagle circling above, or a tiny bug scurrying in front of her, or the screw that fell from computer housing, lost long ago. I see the opportunity for joy that emerges when the door is opened, when each new morning arrives.

Boldly go . . . And listen.

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THE LEGACY OF GROWING UP

Growing up is hard to do . . .

(We need puppy words for the Neil Sedaka song.)

Sometimes it is as if a complete reset occurs overnight, like a change has been downloaded or a backup retrieved from her system. Development occurs in increments, and the net of change is the metamorphosis to adult. This has been true for all puppies, and I would grieve the loss should puppyhood transpire too quickly. No worries! Grace has that covered. Everything we do together is an adventure.

During a recent hotel stay, I left the wifi camera pointed toward the door, as usual, to observe whether people came into the room with the Privacy tag on the door. And sure enough, someone did, who looked at the camera and had an uh-oh reaction. This rarely happens. I’ve also been in a room when people came in, “to clean”; one even said that her manager told her to clean the room. I think she spoke French rather than Spanish, but I can barely make out parts of Spanish, let alone French. Typically I expect that it is an innocent mistake, but occasionally I have doubts. When a Newf is left in the room, I want to know that no one has been present when I’m not there.

Grace was caught on camera checking herself out in the mirror. Josh did something like this in 2003 at Westminster (the year before he was BIS), watching himself on the giant screen. We are all curious about ourselves. At hotels, there are sometimes full-length mirrors, and that reflection catches her attention. We don’t have those in her area at home. Usually, when she looks at the mirror at a hotel room, she is making eye contact with me through the mirror.

The house has a lot of glass, with reflection that is almost clear under certain light conditions, when the glass isn’t covered in noseprints. There are three double doors in the kitchen area, along with one in the bedroom, and there are two windows at visibility level when she is on the bed. When she sees those reflections, they sometimes cause her concern. Perhaps those are more apparition-like. Sometimes she barks at a reflection of a television in the window, or what I expect are cats or raccoons outside the patio door, or at the multiplicity of reflective images in one of the kitchen doors next to the glass dining room doors, smiliar to a hall of mirrors in a haunted house. A few nights ago, she barked at that weird black apparition in one of the doors. I explained that she was barking at herself, that the reflection in the door wasn’t clear like the mirror in the hotel room. As often occurs, her concerns were allayed, whether she understood words or tone and cadence, or whether she has begun to accept my input.

She has keen visual detection, and she will still spot tiny things and explore those with her mouth, and sometimes ingest those when they taste good. I found a malted milk ball on the hotel floor that she had missed for a couple of days. Hotel carpet is designed to decrease visual inspection, which must be why those weird clothing patterns trip AI cameras. But tiny things are everywhere: on a floor, in the yard, on the sidewalks. There is a risk to raising a curious puppy, but it is also a joy.

Another of her fascinations, one that intrigues many Newfs, is paper products. Over the years, a lot of paper towels and toilet paper have been entertainment for a Newf. Grace particularly likes paper. She usually asks now before she lifts a paper towel, and I almost always have one nearby, as a napkin, a coaster or just in case. Sometimes I hold it for her to rip. (complicit) She is three months short of two years, but asking (most of the time) is one of those growing up things. All that I know that I did to modify this was tell her, “That is my paper towel. I need that.” Or, “Oh no! I needed that paper towel.” I use a serious but not exaggerated tone. As they mature, they learn to engage and respond, to your tone if not the words. But I expect she has a good human vocabulary by now.

Some puppy behaviors are not as easily discouraged and require more effort to study and resolve.

On Tuesday night, I watched her step into the bathroom and inspect. As with Banker, she is another Self-Apointed Chief Inspectigator of All Things. It’s a job title that comes with the Newf. Some take their role more seriously than others. Grace took an interest in the toilet paper on its holder, sniffing it, stopping herself, sniffing it, stopping herself, then the expression of pure glee emerged and stopping became an option no longer. This was my first time to catch one in the act, from the beginning. It was so charming to watch her learning that I didn’t step in until she began trying to get a full roll into her mouth. I asked, “Grace, what are you doing?” But by then it was too late. She was enthralled. (incensed if you prefer Ray Stephens descriptor) Adding to the entertainment, it moved around on the bar and unraveled! I intervened and said, “I need that.” She wasn’t happy but conceded. This is my pirate. Not too long ago this would have probably been a bigger battle. Now I will have to keep the door closed. She won’t forget a source of fun.

Another thing that she has in common with Banker and not others is that she still uses her crate. It is like her bedroom, her personal space. She indicated to me one time that she didn’t like it when I laid my jacket across the top. (Don’t be rude.) Our bedroom was planned with enough space for Newfs, but a puppy must begin in a crate. Then the crate can go back to its rack. Usually. Grace was able to stay outside of her crate fairly quickly. So the crate door has been open for over a year. She goes into it to lounge, to change a sleeping spot, or when she is upset with us. (Playing is more fun than watching something on television; can’t be argued.) Banker viewed his crate similarly. It was a place to take a nap with less disturbance from others. He had to give it up when the new guy came along. Although there were times when two crates were set up in the house at once, one takes up enough space. But as long as it is her comfort area and she is using it, it will stay in the bedroom. And she did another thing that was unique for Banker: she did her own time out. She got into something during the night, progressively, a step at a time, crossing her own limit with each step. This woke me at about 1:30 a.m., and as usual for being awakened, I couldn’t go back to sleep. Otherwise I wouldn’t have witnessed the act or the regret. I got up, scolded and picked up the pieces. She sighed, went to her crate and laid down heavily, then she stayed in her crate for a while. A few months ago, this would have been in protest at having her fun interrupted. This time, I had a clear impression that she was unhappy with herself, losing the battle for self-control. It is the first time I’ve seen her do this. Yay! for learning, but I still hope that puppyhood doesn’t fade quickly, or the curiosity and optimism that goes with it.

There is a balance for puppies as for people, learning how to take risks and being driven by optimism. Avoiding risk entirely isn’t good for either.

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