THE MOOSHING FROG

When Banker was young, he didn’t have to worry about toy competition.  He grew up enjoying his stuffies, playing chase/keep-away, pressing his face into their softness, removing squeakers quietly through a small incision, and treating them with a certain level of respect.  Then Competition (Parker) came along.  I suspect that a little jealousy underlies the way that the new kid on the block treats the other’s toys, and Parker was often rough on toys.  Banker had a hard time with this, but he didn’t want to take the firm approach with correcting Parker.  He was pretty much a softie himself.  So, he instead used another approach, one that we often use when we don’t want to exacerbate a behavior.  He began to ignore the toys.

The boys always had a fondness for stuffed lions that had a certain quiet, pleasant expression.  One Christmas when I had bought some stuffed toys, including a lion with this expression, for some kidlets, they kept breaking into the stash & getting the lion and a gorilla.

Later I found a large stuffed lion at Sam’s.  It became Parker’s favorite toy.  It was almost as big as he was.  He would lie down with it, throw his arms around it, moosh his nose into the Friendly Lion, pull at the soft fabric, then moosh some more.  Eventually, after many machine washings, I set the lion aside for repairs.  The Friendly Lion still sits in that place looking lonely.

Then one day I found a giant caterpillar at Sam’s.  It was made of a consecutive set of brightly colored stuffed pile balls with feet.  It also had antennas at one time, but those apparently needed to be removed by the new Competition.  (Darn girl dogs!  <g>)  I had intended to give this present on a special occasion, but I couldn’t get through the house before Parker spotted enough of it to know that it was supposed to be his and he became very excited.  This toy took the position that the lion had held.  How much better could it get?  A toy as big and soft as the lion made up of balls!

About a year after the Caterpillar arrived, along came Jade.  Toys began to accumulate again that needed repair.  She showed Parker how to “shake the prey” using toys for demonstration, and Parker got plenty of practice on his own.  I got a couple of good photos for a Christmas theme from the Newfs playing with the Caterpillar.  In one they are struggling for the toy and using it for tug-o-war, with a girl Newf wearing a very determined expression.  In the next, they are sharing, lying side by side and enjoying the toy.  Eventually, the caterpillar took up residence in a semi-permanent location, needing repair.

Not very long ago, I found another giant stuffed toy at Sam’s, a bright green frog with big plastic eyes.  This is my third trip to the laundromat with it so far.  It sure draws curiosity from the kids when I carry it in or out.  There isn’t much entertainment at the laundromat while you wait for the large front-loading washer or the dryer to complete their cycles, but you don’t have to worry about getting lonely.  Those giant eyes follow you round and round from inside the machine.  <g>

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PAYBACK FOR HUMOR AT SOMEONE ELSE’S EXPENSE

In all honesty, I do think it’s funny that Name Withheld is afraid of snakes.  Shame on me, but it’s true.  Payback:  I was working in the garden box, getting it ready for planting last month, when a large garter snake slid out quickly and unexpectedly.  Garter snakes are usually small, adorable and easy to get along with.  Nothing to fear, except when they “suddenly appear”, then the that high-pitched squeal emerges like no sound you could make if you were actually trying.  What thought comes to mind:  It will be embarrassing to admit this to Name Withheld, as much fun as I have enjoyed at her expense.  <g>

Now, the naturalist in me comes naturally, and is long-entrenched in the roots of my upbringing, if not my genetics.  I even have an ancient relative who was a member of the Dinosaur Wars.  I love spending time outside, and I love the diversity in nature, the plant kingdom as well as the animal kingdom.  There are a few creature varieties that give me pause, at least until I get a closer look.  Not a fan of scorpions, love lizards, glad that most are not poisonous; enjoy non-poisonous snakes, frogs, toads, anything that lives in water, on land or in air, but don’t like most wasps and really don’t like hornets.  Then there are the eight-legged creatures.  I hate ticks!  That I can state firmly and with confidence using a four-letter word.  And, there are spiders.  I’m not a fan of spiders in general, but there are a few that I like.  I enjoy the jumping spiders, and particularly enjoyed the one who stayed in my office last summer.  Now there is a new inhabitant.  And this one has either been replaced or has grown already, and I think it’s the latter.  He’s (or she’s) been hanging out for several weeks now.  It is larger and fuzzier than the one last year.  The front legs that look like iridescent eyes on this one are more green than blue, and are very intriguing.  In the afternoons, he gets busy, and this one either has a remarkable sense of humor, poor judgment or is so hungry that he is exceptionally ambitious.  I was sitting at my desk, watching him from his perch 2-3 feet away, and I could almost read his thoughts.  Surely enough, he jumped directly at me and there was that unrecognizable sound as my blood pressure  dropped so fast that my skin tingled.  And I even saw it coming!

I don’t watch scary movies or read scary books, don’t get a thrill from that kind of rush at all.  Lost my popcorn at one moment in the new Pirates movie.  (It rained on everyone around me.)  So, even if I would go, I’m not good company anyway, unless you’re one of “those” who would have humor at someone else’s expense.

I would like to think that he was simply having humor at my expense, and we all know about payback.  He didn’t lose his place in the desk area, but he did retreat and seems to be a little more cautious about emerging since.  Can’t imagine being a little spider when some gargantuan creature makes a noise like that.  Must be terrifying.  <g>

The one last year seemed somewhat Newfy-like in personality.  Maybe this one is like Jade, and wants to be a “lap-spider”.

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ARAYO’S RIDE: MAY 2011

Last week, Parker and I went to Joplin in the good company of a fellow Newfoundland friend and her road-trip buddy.  Karyn has written some nice pieces on her experiences with the storm and its recovery process on her blog:

The Lure and Tragedy of Tornadoes

Out of the Ruins

A Great Spirit is at Work in Joplin

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IT TAKES FAITH TO MOVE MOUNTAINS [3]

Today, 6/1/11

In the past week, we have tried to spend as much time in Joplin as we can.  The house is now a mess, in need of attention.  Yesterday Greg did some outside work, weedeating and removing the volunteer tree sprouts, and he ran a load of dishes in the dishwasher.  I arrived just as he was cooking dinner.  (What a good sense of timing, hmmm?)  Today he left me a note describing his plans for the evening which included mowing the lawn.  As I walked outside and saw that yes, the lawn did need to be mowed, only then did I realize that it was Wednesday already.

Thursday mornings are when our trash service is scheduled.  So, our weekly schedule for Wednesdays includes any activities that generate waste, such as vacuuming, yard pickup, frig cleanout, etc.  Mowing is on the schedule for Wednesdays so that it is done after yard pickup.  In a pinch, yard pickup can usually be done on Thursday mornings early, but customers have been put on notice that pickups will be done earlier than usual to accomodate the extra work in the Joplin area.  This evening we will be busy.

On Monday Greg and I worked on a clean-up crew in Joplin clearing debris between two housing areas along a ravine.  There were several people cutting broken limbs and fallen trees while many others moved the vegetation and other materials into segregated piles for removal.  In this type of situation, it is a mass labor effort and tools are limited.  So, a lot of the work is hand-carrying of materials, one trip at a time, anywhere from 20 feet to up to 300 feet.  By Monday, some wheelbarrows had been delivered, but there were many more workers than there were wheelbarrows.

During the Memorial on Sunday, Governor J. Nixon described the character of the people in our state.  [Gov. J. Nixon, Memorial Service]  In particular, he used the words “stubborn”, “impatient”, “self-reliant” and “practical”.  Our determination and resolve is often described as “stubborn”.  I believe this comes partly from the roots of our ancestors, and survival and growth required these assets.  These attributes shine as qualities when situations like this demand our full attention.  But there is one more attribute that I think is common to our area, not just Missouri, and that is resourcefulness.  My mom used to say, “Where there is a will, there is a way” and “The best help is at the end of your arm.”  I saw these traits and philosophies in action on Monday.

When you carry a small armful of material and walk back and forth many times, along with somewhere between 10 and 30 other people in your area, you begin to look for ways to accomplish more with your time and energy.  People began using items from the storm debris as tools.  One person found part of a ragged tarp to carry larger loads, others found pieces of plywood or siding to carry larger loads, and one family walked up the hill to a demolished car wash and found what appeared to be plastic covers to a piece of equipment about the size of a small garden cart.  They took sections of wire that were lying along the ground and made pull lines for the covers, one by simply threading a cord with a socket through a small hole.  These could be filled and drug like sleds back and forth.

Many odd items were found along the ravine, including a badly damaged door from a semi truck.  Personal items were collected by the volunteer organizers so those could be reclaimed.

The volunteers are amazing, and there are many volunteers simply taking care of other volunteers.  One man parked in a shopping center with tools for sharpening chains for chainsaws.  Others drove volunteers to and from work areas.  The Missouri Cattlemens’ Association and the Jasper County Cattlemens’ Association have parked by the Volunteer Desk entrance since early last week, grilling burgers and hot dogs and feeding people every day.  The work crews in our area were fed by the Red Cross.  They provided freshly cooked pork barbecue sandwiches from an EMT type vehicle along with many donated snack foods, protein bars and drinks.  So I decided to help those who were helping others and volunteered to help the Cattlmens’ Association yesterday.  As it turned out, they had four cooks and a number of people serving, so most of yesterday’s time was spent visiting with neighbors, getting acquainted for the first time, and hearing their stories of experiences in the tornado, like the couple in their 80s found walking down a gravel road and how children are struggling with bad dreams.

Not only is today Wednesday, but it is also June 1.  Time does march on, and the heat and humidity are beginning to increase.  A tremendous amout of work has been accomplished in the first week, but progress for remaining work may begin to taper.  There are many who were able to give up their Memorial Day weekends to help.  There are volunteers who are staying in tents in the parking lot, so the volunteer shelters may still be full.

Rangeline is beginning to flow at usual traffic speeds, and with courtesy for the damage, traffic remains relatively light.  Power lines have been cut down in the hardest hit areas, but most traffic lights are in operation again.  Many businesses have set up temporary operations along Rangeline, including insurance offices and support organizations as well as existing businesses.

On 5/22, I had gone back to the television after the storm subsided, watching local anchors Dowe Quick and Gary Bandy for information about the damage.  As I watched the KOAM anchor, the scope of the devastation began to sink in and the influence of his thoughts began to be visible on this reliably practiced professional:  How will we ever recover from this?  The people who serve at Starbucks’ drive-thru window are usually quick with wit and friendliness, but the person on Thursday was distracted and stressed, although still polite.  By Saturday, the wit and humor was back.  The degree of support from people local and far-away were giving the community a renewed spirit of optimism and courage.

Another piece of encouragement could be found in a one-year follow-up story on the Parsons tornado from April of 2000, re-aired the past weekend.  [Parsons tornado follow-up]

While the rebuilding will continue for more than a year, and the painful reminders will be part of the landscape for a long time, the sharpness of the pain will subside.  Rebuilding will allow better energy efficiency to be incorporated into homes and businesses.  Protection from storms will no doubt be a factor in planning.  More gas efficient vehicles may replace older vehicles.  In the long run, there are many opportunities for improvement, but at a cost that would have been avoided if that were in any way possible.

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