Sunshine & Snow Melting

Feb. 11, 2011

I won’t know what it feels like to stand outside where my feet are actually on firm ground!

We had another bountiful measure of snow a couple of days ago, more than the 2nd round, with a piled high total.  Walking across the front yard had a strange feeling.  Your feet would go through the first layer, then more slowly through the next layer, leaving you standing on a compressed level of snow, not being sure whether it would give under you as you took the next step.

The dogs don’t mind, they plow on.   They sink in to about their bellies.  They’ve really enjoyed the bounty of winter this year.  They walk through it, scooping it up in their mouths like they do water when they swim.  Water in any form is such wonderful stuff!  I think they are beginning to expect that this is the new norm, that every day whenever they go outside, there is snow on the ground.  In other words, the excitement and rapture is beginning to be replaced with acceptance if not expectation, although still with fun.  Now that the sun is coming out and the snow is beginning to melt, I’m delighted.  Hope they aren’t too disappointed.

I’m about ready to turn the house upside down for a spring cleaning.  (not that cleaning is one of my favorite tasks!)  Ready for no more excessive winter coats, suits, snow boots, accessories and severe weather reserves (mainly water run into bottles and carboys).  Ready to put away the humidifier, the winter “hut” for Corky, and put the plants back outside!  I think we will celebrate with baths this weekend!  The birds outside are just as happy about this as I am!  (Of course, next comes the muddy feet season.  <g>)

Happy Friday to everyone from The Bigfoot Club!

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YOUR SMILE IS YOUR GIFT

As my parents reached their post-senior years, Greg and I spent time with them more frequently.  That is an amazing time to spend with parents.  You learn more about their lives than you may have ever known or realized.  One thing that had always been important at our house was the kitchen table.  My mom loved to prepare food for people.  It was one of her gifts to others.  The kitchen table was more than a place where we ate, though.  It was an important place for socialization.  I can remember family and friends (“grown-ups”) visiting around the kitchen table from when I was little, and those were happy times.  My parents were always delighted when company came.  In their later life, they had moved from the area where our family had roots to a place in the world that was my dad’s, and my mom’s, fantasy for living.  Many people made the drive into an area of Missouri’s wilderness to visit even then.  As they reached their late senior years, they moved to be near my brother in a neighboring community.  This is where they lived, independently, into their 90s.  During this time, we visited more often, and during this time, people whom they had known from their childhood through their early years kept in touch by letters or came to visit.  Mom always wanted to serve food, or coffee and pie, to anyone who came.  At this time, I became more aware of the love that they had for others, and how that was exhibited through their smiles and their deep, genuine compassion.

This morning, Parker was in one of his deep contemplative moods, one where he is happy with the world, with a smile that reflects complete peace and joy.  It is as if his light shines from inside.  Weekend mornings are one of the more common times to catch him wearing this expression, when he seems to know that peace in the day lies ahead, with Greg cooking in the kitchen, good stuff in store for the Newfs, the company of your pod – all the good things in life.  I see that same kind of purity in his expression.

He has always had these moments in time, throughout his adult life, with an expression that conveys happiness, peace, joy or love, with so much purity that it is humbling as well as warm and inspiring.  I am caught, frozen in a moment that will distract his thoughts, wishing that I had a camera, because I want to be able to remember this and be refreshed by that memory when he isn’t here any more.  There is nothing that says “Life is good” or “I love you” more clearly or more genuinely.

I’m a simple human, easily distracted by a multitude of priorities and often too serious.  I’ve learned a lot from my Newfs over the years, and this lesson from my parents and from my Newfs:  Your smile is a very important gift, and it reveals your priority for those you care about, or who care about you.  One of these days, I hope that I will master this reprioritization and will be good at that too.

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Ahhh, winter!

February 1, 2011

Newfs love snow.  It’s a simple fact of nature.  It’s very exciting and marvelous stuff!  And snowfall was generous this year.  There were four waves within a couple of weeks, one reaching over 20″.  The Newfs were almost overwhelmed with the breathtaking limitlessness.  It was so deep in places that they had a hard time telling when their feet had finally reached the bottom, and their feet didn’t always reach the bottom.

ABOMINABLE SNOWDOGS

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HE (I) DID IT AGAIN!!

Saturday here was lovely.  (Apologies to those of you covered in snow.)  It was T-shirt weather, the kind that inspires you to get up, get out and do all those things that have been hanging around on your To-Do list for the winter months.  This, of course, means a trip to Lowe’s and several other errands.  And Parker wasn’t going to let me get out of his sight – it was a lovely Saturday and dogs wanted to take a walk in town.

Parker has one of those warm smiles that make you feel like everything is right with the world.  It is like those AT&T commercials where the gold begins at one point and fills the canvas.  When we walk, he smiles happiness at people so that they smile back and visit.

When we are in the van, he knows every place in town that has goodies.   The first stop was the gas station.  The last errand of the previous day was one too many, so this was a priority.  Here was goodie stop #1 – Casey’s, with those tear-apart doughnuts made from doughnut holes – good for small pieces to share with a Newf.

At what felt like 72 degrees, it wasn’t typical Newfie weather, but it is the weather that brings people outside, and Parker, being a socializer like his dad, was sure that there would be people who wanted to pet a Newf, so it was a good day for a walk.  We passed several children playing, and when we reached the van, a group of boys rode their bicycles toward us and asked to pet the Newfs.  One had a new Newfie puppy at home.  Parker christened the boy, who was taken aback by some slobber.  <g>  I guess he forgot to read the instruction manual!

We had taken a long walk, so I wasn’t surprised when the Newfs were quiet that evening, but it continued on Sunday.  Parker seemed so down that I began worrying.  Maybe I had overdone the walk.  Maybe it was something that he ate.  Maybe he was getting a bug.  Maybe . . . 

One of my cleanup tasks was the van.  It had been in the shop for a mysterious ailment (that happens around here too often) that in the end, around $1800 later, required the replacement of an oxygen sensor – what I had suggested when I took it in.  Along the way, a problem with the gasket on the intake manifold had been discovered.  (The cover is now made of plastic and apparently the material wasn’t as heat tolerant as it should have been.)  The service department had taken out the front seats and removed the cowl, and everything in the van had been “rearranged”.

Last year I had taken out the marine grade carpet liner that a local shop had custom-fit to the van floor and began using the Penney’s cut-to-fit rugs in its place.  I love that these can be washed in the machine!  Such an easy clean-up, and the 5 x 6 size fits the floor in front of the deck perfectly.  It was a good opportunity to clean the inside and such a nice day to be outside!  As soon as the clean rug was in place, Parker decided that he had waited long enough, and he got into the van.  Jade came in right behind him.  Far be it from me to argue with a good Newfoundland, or decline them the privilege of enjoying the outside time with me, but there was a lot of work left to do – no stopping for another walk in town. 

There was a cool breeze to go along with the nice sunshine, and the dogs were comfortable with the van doors open.  As I worked, I watched Parker.  He looked so dismal that my worries grew.  Having had some of those painful dramatic losses that can occur suddenly, I have a keen awareness of how fast things can happen, and at that point, I was afraid.  I was still worried that the walk had been too long, but now many other possibilities were springing to mind.  Jade was being too quiet, too, but didn’t appear to feel badly.  I stopped and sat with them, holding Parker’s head in my lap, and the tears began flowing.  I wondered what to do next, and whether to make an emergency call, but I knew that his symptoms weren’t immediate and that any testing would take days.  His last senior panel was done about three weeks ago, and I had his thyroid testing run at the University of Michigan.  I keep all of the Newfs’ blood test results in a spreadsheet so I can watch for trends and had noticed that his TT4 had dropped slightly but steadily over the past 8 years.  He has been itchy since last October, so I had called the endocrinologist to ask whether that amount of drop was normal with aging or if a problem may be developing.  The response was that this was normal and that his thyroid function appeared to be excellent.  This had narrowed down the number of issues for me to worry about, and of those, it wasn’t likely that he was in need of attention before Monday.

I combed him out and blew him off with the high-speed dryer, then took him for a short walk by himself.  He was moving comfortably, not acting sore from overexertion.  He was particularly interested in stopping at one house where a lady comes out to meet us sometimes when we go for walks from home.  He was a little disappointed when no one met us at the road, but they weren’t at home.  He seemed to enjoy the walk.  When we got back, I made fried chicken for dinner.  (His favorite!  – along with a few others)  The smell of dinner cooking seemed to improve his outlook.  He wanted to be sure that when I took him outside, leaving Jade in charge of the kitchen (to sound the alarms if there was a problem), that dinner would be safe.  He didn’t seem confident that was a wise choice.  To his point, he has 9 years of experience with my kitchen skills.

I finished cleaning the floors and the bathroom, then put down a new bed for the Newfs and added freshly cleaned rugs.  Having awakened at 2:30 a.m. on Sunday morning, getting to bed early that evening had been a priority, so as soon as everyone was fed and tucked in (cows, cats, horses and Newfs), I went to bed and began to relax.  Then the dawn of enlightenment lifted my spirits!  Greg was out of town.  He needs to get better at informing Parker about this before he leaves!  I called Greg and let him talk with Parker by speakerphone.  He carefully explained that he would be home on Tuesday night – 2 more nights.

This is another way that Parker is like his dad (Banker) – when it’s time for bed, all members of the pack are supposed to be together!  It used to be a worse offense for me to leave home than for Greg, but Greg was traveling more often then.  Now he is gone for a night and sometimes two, but not usually for 4-5 days at a time, and typically not over a weekend.  Today has been back to normal.  Parker is alert and on cue.  The only drama has been from the Boston Terrier, the typical highly affected sigh that comes when he thinks he is waiting too long for his cookie.  <g>

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