BED WARMERS (or Sharing the Bed with the Baby Wuki)

11/24/08, “In Remembrance” series

As I get older, the more I realize how short the time is that we get to share with Newfs and others.  That may be a universal truth, but to those in the learning process, each advancement feels like a revelation.  Along with that realization, my flexibility increases, so that I can understand the baby-of-the-family syndrome more and more.

When Banker was with us, getting on the bed was only allowed in the morning, and only partially.  He didn’t jump on the bed, but hopped with his front feet only to share some morning affection.  Banker was driven to a sleep schedule more than some.  He would come to get us, sleepy-eyed, when it was time for bed. He may have viewed morning much like I view my fresh cup of coffee each day – can’t wait.  The older he got, the more tendency he had to sleep in.

Banker was the first to get to break the rule of no-dogs-on-the-bed.  Others before him would approach the bed for a sign of life, but I learned how to be very still to keep a Newf from trying to encourage me to wake.  <g>

Parker is the first to make it a routine that the dog jumps on the bed in the morning, sometimes without checking to see if I’m awake (so much for pretending,) to enjoy some on-the-bed cuddling.  This has led to more effort to find ways to manage this and keep the bed reasonably clean and easy for humans to sleep in.  The present effort is a matelassé cover, folded down in thirds across the foot of the bed, and pulled up quickly when indications are that there will be company on the bed.  These are heavy enough to withstand Newf toenails, and being made of white cotton, ours is easily kept clean by washing, with occasional bleaching.  The drawback is in whether you are awake and how fast your reflexes are.  The older he gets, the more flexible I get, still, so that now it is a night-time privilege too, usually beginning with a celebration of the coming of a weekend on Thursdays.  Greg usually goes to bed first, and there has been a nice recent benefit that Parker lays on my side of the bed, so it is pre-warmed when I climb in.  Of course, there is often some space negotiation needed.

There is a progression of night-time cuddling now.  It begins with the Newf laying between the people, head toward the top.  Once the Newf gets warm, he turns with his head near the foot of the bed.  After a while, he hops back down to his own bed, and we all go to sleep for the night.

Yes, Parker is the “baby of the family” and at present, the only child.  When he gets some company, I suppose we will need a bigger bed.

 

Note:  A sheet one size larger than the bed works well to protect a comforter or quilt from excessive washing.  It can be laid fully over the bed, folded in half from the top down across the foot of the bed, then folded up again bringing the top quarter back up over the original fold.  You can quickly grasp the sheet by the edge and pull it toward you to cover the entire bed, as long as your reflexes are good.

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DYNAMIC DISCOVERY (or another segment in The Joys of Puppyhood)

Written March 19, 2009

Our little wonder is now 7 months old.  She has progressed to all adult teeth and she now has quite a bit of top coat coming in along her topline.  It still stops just short of her fuzzy little butt, leaving the profile a little funny looking, but each day she progresses toward  more adult coat.  She still thinks that Parker’s ears are tug-of-war toys, but her adult teeth aren’t so sharp, so there is less sneezing (puppy allergy.)  Parker still isn’t willing to return the treatment, so she has been hard to discourage.  He will snap, in a deliberate miss for the benefit of the sound, to try to discourage her, but he’s a softie, and she knows it.

She is experiencing the joys of growing up and learning, and we get to experience life renewed through her perspective.  Parker forgets that he isn’t a puppy any more too.  She has quite a bit of confidence for such a young, relatively small creature, and when he goes belly-up in play, she thinks she can take him.  <g>  My favorite puppy memory of Jade  is when she is the one on the floor, after she has thrown herself belly-up, ears flung straight out away from her face, all four feet pointed outward away from her body, with a look of pure glee on her face.  In the next split-second following that pose, she is spinning and scooting away in a run, so it is only a brief moment in time.

I think she has taken to understanding rocket science, in her own way.  As with most puppies, she loves to discover how fast she can run and how high she can jump, and the Jade-rocket is pretty fast.  She has been applying her speed talent toward eating recently, however.  She can clear her bowl really fast, then she boldly offers to help Parker finish  his meal.   The next step in her study of rocket science is the sonic boom.  That occurs after she gives her dish a fast whip-cleaning and it sails out of its support and across the room, crashing onto the floor or into the wall, depending on the momentum involved.

Well, being a scientist, I’m rather proud of her choice of study and her learning potential.  <g>

It has been an entertaining experience, as it always is, watching Parker (the most recent adult) get a different perspective on puppyhood.  As Newfoundlands mature, at least with the development that comes from partnership and socialization, they take on a more dignified and graceful personality, with occasional relapses.  Then along comes some  bold new thing, and suddenly it’s surprising that a creature would be so bold, other than themselves.  <g>

Puppyhood does inject new exuberance into everyone, and spring is a good time to enjoy puppyhood, with the flowers blooming, the birds singing, and T-shirt weather outside again.

Now, if only those spring rains would come, so we would have a creek to swim in.  (Yes, I know to be careful what I wish for, but it is unusually dry for our area.  That can change quickly.)

 

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HAPPY FRIDAY!

written 5/25/12

(in honor of our Happy Friday Newf)

It’s a good thing my Newfs have an internal timeclock.  I tend to wake up in the morning, have my cup of coffee and begin over-filling my agenda with a list of things I want to accomplish during the day.  When that list exceeds 3 or 4, it becomes a written list, and I usually have a number of those in inventory with incompleted tasks from previous days.  If it weren’t for the reminders that Friday is approaching, who knows what could happen to all of the days and weeks and months!  <g>

Parker was in a very good mood last night.  After we got back, he ran into the house, deliberately passed his new favorite toy (Gatorade bottle this time <g>), then swung around and looked at it with surprise as if he had never seen it before, then jumped up and pounced on it with great delight!  It’s nice to have a puppy in the house still (at nearly 10.5 years)!

Happy Friday!  Pass it on!  (from the Good Humor Newf and the rest of the Bigfoot Club)

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TIMING, POWER FAILURES AND STICKCICLES

1/14/07, published In Rembrance

This afternoon, Greg was supposed to travel to meet some other people who were coming through the St. Louis airport.  After repairing an area of fence where the cattle were, he checked with the rest of the group.  The airport was back in operation, so Greg continued with plans.  Within 30 minutes after he left, the power failed.

Since so many are without power in this vicinity and for lengths in terms of days, I immediately began the process – duct tape around the north door, close the blinds in the windows, start the kerosene heater in the basement, gather essential supplies – flashlight, candles, matches, Wet Ones, cell phone, direct phone (still had phone service, but no cable,) blankets, and crate fans (for the insert, the only source of heat with no electricity for the fans.)  Then I changed into serious thermals, wool socks, knit hat and warm outerwear.  I had been washing the dogs’ rugs today and had immediately noticed when I stepped on the pad that I keep under the rugs how well it insulated my foot from the cold floor.  The pads are dense foam rolls that I get from Wal-Mart.  They are intended for use under sleeping bags.  I had thought that their purpose was cushion, but was glad to know how well the insulation worked.  I might need to borrow one to sleep in front of the fireplace.

I carried in more firewood, carried the cat out, carried in more firewood, removed the cat again, etc.  The Flintstones song began to play and replay in my mind.  I could have let the cat stay in, but then if he weren’t always picking on the girl cats, he might have snuggle buddies in the barn, and if I ever cave, I think he will move in.

I had two UPS units for computers, and the cell phone wasn’t completely charged, so I used one to finish charging the cell phone.  As soon as possible, I shut those off in case I would need the power later.  In an ice storm years ago, the power was off for four days.

It was a little early, but I didn’t want to run out of daylight, so I took the dogs out to potty.  There had been rain and sleet off and on throughout the afternoon, and at this point it was a mix.  The surface was slushy and less slippery, at least.  Since the Littlest Newfoundland doesn’t like a change in her routine, I knew that I would have to take her out on leash through the front door.  That was enough of a shift to interfere with her ability to take care of business.  I took the leash off.  She gave me a look like I was being mean to a good Newf and went back to the house at the first opportunity to Her door.  After re-collecting Shelby and taking her out again, she finally complied.  We live in a very wooded area.  While we were waiting, the limbs were falling from trees and trees were falling every few seconds.  It sounded like the report from a rifle when the frozen limbs cracked.  This was causing the mares some excitement, but the two bay geldings were quietly eating their hay.  Parker made a cautionery statement toward the sound, but then began to ignore it.

There were limbs in our yard that had broken off from the weight of the ice, and the lower limbs of all of the trees were touching the ground.  The ice layer was the thickest that I have ever seen firsthand.  Parker enjoyed walking under the low-hanging branches just to hear the rattling sound that made.  Not to let his routine suffer from interference, he found a stick and pried it off the ground.  It was covered by a thick layer of ice, until he carried it around for a while.  He took it everywhere that we went, as usual.

Parker is OK with the front entrance, as is Brit.  There is a difference though.  Sticks must be left at the back door before entering the house.  For some reason, Parker thinks that rule shouldn’t apply at the front door.  After convincing him to leave it outside, I realized that one of my gloves was missing, so we went back out again.  I found it inside a vehicle, from when I pulled out the crate fans.  I had locked the door, so went back to get the key and put Parker inside.  In the few moments that I was outside again, he had crunched that stick down so only a few crumbs were left.  I hope that it stays down and passes safely.

The dogs would have different rations tonight since I couldn’t cook.  There was already chicken that had been cooked yesterday, and they also got fresh apples.  Cookies made up the balance tonight.  I don’t think that they were disappointed.  <g>  I put some of the pork roast that Greg had made in aluminum foil along with a couple of tortillas and put those on the insert to warm.  There was plenty to drink in the house, juices, bottled water, Dr. Pepper, and an already open bottle of wine.  There was plenty to eat that did not require cooking, although I wondered how much of the stored electricity in the UPS the small microwave would consume.  I figured that we were OK.  I had water to brush my teeth.  I had set the candles above the fireplace in front of the mirror, so the living room had enough light, and the hurricane lamp in the kitchen lit that room well.  All was OK until tomorrow.

Since it had been a few hours, I moved perishable refrigerated food to a cooler with ice that had slid off the roof and off of branches.  I decided to settle in for the night.  As I pulled my pillow off the bed to take to the living room, the power came back on.  What a rude awakening, just when I was enjoying the self-sufficiency.  <g>  Now I can have that cup of hot chocolate.

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