SAVED BY THE NEWF! (KITCHEN HELP PART 135)

Posted 2/15/10

I thought he was getting a bit lazy about it – warning me that dinner needed attention.  Especially when it is his dinner, I would think he would put more effort into helping me pay attention.  But (sigh) he must have decided it was a lost cause.

After a long day in KC, I came home, started dinner and turned on the computer.  (Do you hear the word “MISTAKE” in that sentence?  <g>)  I was surprised at the number of messages in Newf-l alone.  In what seemed like only a matter of a couple of minutes, Parker came to the door and barked at me.  He had already been outside, and I had just given him fresh water.  What could he possibly want?  “OK, just another minute.”  With a little insistence from Parker, I looked up again.  “Oh!  Thank you , bud!”  (glad he’s back on the job!)

I can be good kitchen help, as long as I’m properly supervised.

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Who’s Leading Whom?

Written 6/23/10

Parker has always been one of those Newfs who likes to carry things.  It gives him delight, and he shows his pride through his expression and his posture.  He’s been in a very good mood yesterday and today, and as you know, when a Newf shares their joy, it brightens everything.

Monday night was less than joyous, though.  Greg went out of town, and since he hadn’t been traveling as much for a while, Parker seemed to have lost touch with his ability to recognize the signs, like packing a suitcase.  He is usually very tuned into this, and is aware long before one of us begins packing that something is going on.  Maybe the problem was that the dogs have been traveling with us for the past few months when suitcases are packed, so his alarm level was low.  In any case, it caught him off-guard.  Monday night was not good for sleeping.  At the point that we went to bed, Parker was aware that something was wrong.  Not all of the “pack” was where they were supposed to be.  He laid with his head pointed toward the doorway, doing the whimper-cry-worry distress sounds that connect deep within me like a cattle prod.  This meant that Jade didn’t get comfortable either, or Corky (Boston Terrorizer).  Shortly after this, Corky heard a monster outside and went into full alarm mode.  (The sprinkler was on.)  Jade and Parker joined in for this one.  It was a long night.

The next morning, we went to Work, and things gradually began to feel more normal.  Greg called during the day, so maybe he didn’t “run away” after all.  By evening, with a good afternoon snooze for the Newfs, all were happy again.

This morning, we went to Work again, walking along the road to the office, me with two Newfs beside me.  It was nice enough that I thought we would use the opportunity for a little exercise by walking down the road and back, passing the drive to the office.  Suddenly, it felt like I had hit the end of the leash.  <g>  Jade was beside me, but where was Parker?  I turned around to see what was wrong, and saw that Parker had taken the leash in his mouth, not with the usual joy of enthusiasm for doing something together, but to stop me, and it did stop me in my tracks.  I don’t know whether he thought we missed our turn, or if he thought the pavement was too hot for a walk, but clearly he wanted to go to the office, not further down the road.  I do appreciate that my Newfs are independent thinkers with the confidence to communicate, but negotiation goes both ways.  This time, I convinced him to walk with us a little further, just a short distance, then we went back.  The Newfs explored their yard for a little while, then came in for a cookie and another good nap.

I do love sharing our place in the world with a good Newf who teaches me that listening is very important (a phrase that I often use with them).

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MY BIG BEAUTIFUL BUD PARKER

Parker and I have been best friends for a very long time now, in terms of Newfoundland years.  But even a very long time is not long enough.

He’s been my bud through many happy memories and some difficult ones.  We lost his dad together.  Brit, Parker and I spent that week at MU staying together in the van or in the waiting room.  Then he was my soft spot when I lost my dad, and later my mom.  He was there to comfort me when I lost my 42-year-old pony, a legend of his own in my family.  We were together when we said good-bye to Banker’s pal Roadway (a cat), to Shelby, and then to Brit, and to Spot (a cat story).

We’ve taken a lot of adventures together, side-by-side.  The separation anxiety began for him when we lost his dad.  He was very shaken up about it, to the point that he was trembling the following day.  After that, he didn’t want to let me out of his sight.  He would stay at home by himself, but everywhere else, we were pretty much a package deal.  He was with me, or I was with him.  He went with me to visit family, to the Nationals and to places where we could travel by van or Expedition.

On a door in my office, there is a long scratch in the wood finish where I learned not to play hide’n seek indoors, because he nearly panicked when he couldn’t find me.

So, now I’ve learned that his turn to depart is coming, and while I will have other Newfs to hug, and they are very important to me also, Parker won’t be the one I reach out for, the one I lean on, for the first time in a very long time.  We will get through this together, until the end is here.

For now, he is here, next to me, and when I look at him, he is as beautiful as ever, and his eyes are overflowing with that warm purity.  His humor is intact, his toys are still fun (he just pulled the Woody Woodpecker toy between his front legs in his usual comical way), and he looks rather handsome in his denim shirt.  He prefers lying near the fireplace now while the insert is running, but he still enjoys going out in the snow or cold weather for short times.  We will enjoy our minutes and days, for as many as we can share, and I will be especially thankful to have had the time to share with him.

I’ve realized yet one more thing about living with Newfs:

Separation anxiety goes both ways.

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OUR LOVELY BLACK GIRL IS NOW A BRONZE!

Posted 11/21/13

Our lovely black girl, Jade is now a Bronze!  (GCH Bronze level)

All prospective majors this spring were a bust, so it was close.  I thought it would be
nice if she finished this at the weekend of the HANC regional, but I thought we left with 99 GCh points.  Oh well, we had a good time.  Then I checked the AKC rankings and another point was there.  I had forgotten about that one!  I checked today, and she passed the 100 point mark!!  Yay!  (I fell like Banner does when she races across the house, spins, then uses the sofa as a landing pad.  I may just join her today!)

Previous show photo:

Jade, Town & Country KC, Oct 2010

Jade, Town & Country KC, Oct 2010

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